Stephanie Lyn Palazzo

&

Thomas Edward Knickman

Please join us on

30 September 2022 at 5PM

Celebration to Follow

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Dinner Selection

Any Dietary Restrictions?

Registry

We’re so excited to celebrate with you all. If you wish to give a gift, being the indecisive people we are, we have a few options.

We have a small registry at RV Pottery, a woman-owned pottery studio based in Nashville. Cash and contributions to the honeymoon are welcomed. And we would love for folks to consider donating to the National Park Foundation and/or the Kristin Palazzo Endowment for Visual Arts at Lancaster Mennonite School, in honor of Steph’s sister, Kristin, who loved art and would have been so excited to welcome Tom into the family.

Location

Please park at Chiques Church

The Palazzo residence is on a hill, which makes for a beautiful setting for a wedding, but not the most ideal parking lot. Instead, we ask everyone park at Chiques Church. No, we won’t be getting married there. And yes, the parking lot is next to a cemetery. But we promise, a shuttle will take you to the venue where heavenly wedding vistas await you on the other side. Chiques Church is located at 4045 Sunnyside Road, Manheim, Pennsylvania 17545.

Please Note

If you, good people reading this, should mistakenly show up at the Palazzos’ with a car, there’s good news and bad news. The good news is that a parking attendant will direct you to the church just a mile away. The bad news is that your welcome-champagne will be revoked.

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FAQ

Covid, access, and other information

What are the Covid-19 guidelines?
We encourage everyone to take precautions leading up to the wedding to make it a safe and enjoyable environment for everybody, including our guests who might have pre-existing conditions or other vulnerabilities. Vaccinations are encouraged, and masks are welcomed.
What is the dress code?
Cocktail attire is recommended, but we encourage everyone to wear what you prefer!
Will there be any accommodations for those with difficulty walking?
The property is on a hill and most of the day will take place on grass-surfaces. (So stilettos are probably not your friend.) Please do not hesitate to let us know if you anticipate any concerns with walking short, but sometimes hilly distances to the various areas.
Will there be any accommodations for hearing impaired guests?
For folks hard of hearing, let us know if you’re concerned, and we will do our best to make sure you have seats close to the action!

About Us

Beech Mountain
Beech Mountain, Maine

You’re probably wondering how a software engineer and an anthropologist wound up together. Tom quite literally builds the world in 1s and 0s; Steph almost exclusively inhabits its gray. Tom is fastidious about his coffee; Steph can’t be bothered to weigh the grounds. Tom likes sharp lines, clean corners, and minimal clutter; Steph turns generously towards eclecticism and struggles to put things away. So how, dear reader, did you end up here?

It all started with the desk. Well, actually the 4Runner, then the desk. (But we promise, the desk is also important.) Somehow, Tom and Steph found themselves as newly minted college graduates driving Tom’s beloved 4Runner across the country. They spent four weeks together traveling across the country—from the mountains of Virginia to the bullfrogs of Indiana to the Chipotles of Kansas to the Maroon Bells of Colorado to the arches of Utah, all the way up through Montana glaciers, across Canadian lakes to Seattle cappuccinos until finally reaching the hardwired heart of the Silicon Valley. (I guess you could say it was a *hard drive*.)

Once they arrived, they took a trip to Ikea, where Tom hoped to recreate 500 Days of Summer, which Steph had not seen, and Steph got immediately overwhelmed by the sheer number of sofa options. So they left, empty-handed… but wait, do you, dear reader, also detect full-hearts?

Indeed, Tom dropped Steph off at the airport, homesick and a little smitten, and Steph was about to board her plane back to Pennsylvania when suddenly she wheeled around at the gate, ran through the airport, flew down the escalators, jumped the security ropes, skidded on the shined linoleum before colliding with none other than Tom, teary-eyed and open-armed. They professed their mutual love for one another and the rest is history.

Except here’s where the desk comes in because Steph did not actually run back to Tom’s ready embrace. She did in fact board the plane, and Tom did in fact stay out in California for four years. They kept in touch as travel buddies mostly, meeting up in Seattle, Tahoe, and Asheville to hike. When Steph moved to Chicago for grad school, Tom flew out each year to visit and go to dinner (subtle, Tom, subtle).

In 2020, they found themselves back on the same coast, and Steph asked Tom to build her a standing desk if he had the time. Tom did not in fact have the time, working remotely and juggling his numerous hobbies, but he readily agreed. They started texting about the desk—its design, dimensions, materials, etc.—and gradually the topic of dinner came up. By the fourth dinner, they were unequivocally in love. By their fourth month, they knew they would marry the other. And by their twenty-fourth month, here they are, about to walk down the aisle.

Steph still gets overwhelmed by the world’s sheer number of furniture choices, and Tom still hopes to recreate romantic moments at every opportunity (he also convinced Steph to finally watch 500 Days of Summer). It’s true, they don’t agree on everything. But they absolutely agree on two things: Alli is the best pup, and their love was always already here.

We are so excited to celebrate it with you all!

Schedule

For our need-to-know, need-to-plan, or just simply curious friends and family, here is a schedule of events:

  1. 4:00 PMShuttle service begins from Chiques Church
  2. 5:00 - 5:30 PMCeremony
  3. 5:30 - 6:30 PMCocktail Hour
  4. 6:30 - 11:00 PMReception

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